'The Question'

Two months after you tied the knot, people will start asking questions, i mean 'the question'..Bila lagi? Takdak apa2 lagi? Nak tunggu sampai bila lagi ni? and etc..Daaaaan jangan la gatai2 mulut cakap 'oh, kami planning la..' or even 'kami blom ready lagi. nnt2 la..'

Dah sah2 tuan2 dan puan akan kena hantam, 'Eh, jgn plan2 nnt Allah tak bagi langsung', 'Org tua2 kata yg mula2 ni jangan plan nnt bila nak, terus tak dapat', 'Apa yg tak readynya, bila dah kawin maksudnya ready untuk semua benda tau', 'Depa nnt ada rezeki masing2 toksah dok risau pasai duit la' dan mcm2 lagi ayatnya yg bakal buat telinga kita merah..

Ok, bagi i to get pregnant and to have child(ren) bukan sekelip mata punya decision. Kalau i ready to get married doesn't mean i'm ready to get a child. Come on people, give us, to be exact give ME some more times ok..saya belum mentally, emotionally, physically bersedia, please understand.